Alright, before I delete it, here is the hacked together sx-window theme for pekwm
Here it is. it's a hackjob, but here it is
if you wanna start up the buttons, just tell your autostart to execute sx_buttons.py
There is no minimize button, and I am not sure if I added a secret maximize button or not.
No clock included.
No, I did not know what to use for the icon, but this probably got your attention